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Tete
What’s the story behind your nickname? My childhood nickname, Tete, was given to me by my grandmother. My sister’s nickname is Nene, and my cousin’s is Riah-Riah. We all have similar nicknames. I always tell people who met me as a teenager or later, “Do not call me Tete.” You have to be my family…
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I didn’t raise my hand
(Old to me, new to you) Today, First Lady asked, “How many of you trust God? If you do, raise your hand.” And I didn’t. Not because I don’t trust God. Look — I had no food yesterday to feed my daughter. And today, God loaded my food stamp card with full benefits — Benefits…
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Reflection on My Biggest Mistake: Choosing “The One”
(Written August 5, 2024) Reflecting on what I consider my biggest mistake, choosing the person I thought was “the one,” I have learned a lot: 1. Strength and Resilience: I discovered a strength within myself that I never knew existed. I learned that I can withstand immense pressure without yielding. I thought foster care was…
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Captain
(Written October 3, 2023) “Real As* Nig**” song by Miguel “Have you, you ever (Have you ever, ever) Ever fucked with a real nigga (yeah) Real ass nigga before? I know you’re so tired of Feeling like you deserve better You need a real ass nigga like me, yeah Like me, baby” This song perfectly…
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Can You Read? Normalizing Ignorance & Coming Out of Hiding
Can You Read? The question itself is not rhetorical. I am so serious when I ask you, Can you read? Surely you can. You’re reading this. Disclaimer. Sometimes I mean things in the nicest way, but they may sound rude. This is one of those times. This blog is written for a specific audience. The…
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Holy Ground: Public Repentance
It’s like someone who cannot swim. God pushed me into the deep. “I was pushed hard, so that I was falling, but the LORD helped me.” (Psalm 118:13, ESV). He pushed me so that I was falling into the deep end of the pool. I guess this type of repentance and pruning is me learning how…